Okay,so it came on the bus today. It’s slow. And I did a ballet competition to it. But they usually play it at weddings. A woman sings it. Shes talking about how shes so in love and she wouldnt know what she would do without him. I know stupid question because there alot of songs like that. The ladys white though. Because I remember the cd.
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im having trouble deciding what kind of food i want, all i know is that i dont want any of that stupid cliche “chicken or beef” boring crap. what did you all have served at ur weddings? how much did u spend?
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im 23 ( divorced ) and 1 child.
Moving forward in a new life, with no contact to my ex (he was abusive)
My daughter is 2. My current Bf of two years, great guy pain in the ass at times , usuall hard working man. (carpenters union)
We both have stressfull jobs, his physically demanding
Mine mentally demanding (working for veterans at the VA hospital)
We have our ups and downs, but I am sure he is the one. I see him in my future. he sees me in his, but he said he doesnt want marriage bc its overrated/ all about paper and money. Plus he knows I got married aand it didnt work out and I think that scares him. He says its just because its overated and why cant I be happy without getting married. SO since that coversation I realized really ultimatly, he right.
So i moved on in trying to aquire strength that the relationship can go just as well without that commitment, but when we see movies or tv that have weddings i get resentful, and say stupid stuff like that’ll never be me! lol and he hates that.
So besides that tid bit which obviessly isnt as bad as it seems, I am a girl, I overthink like most girls, and I want to be a better girlfriend so I need your advice on how to do that, and still be who I am.
Info but not important info: Im the giver, Im the romantic one, and the nurturer in the relationship. Hes the tough cookie, it is what it is realist, and the backbone. When im broke hes there, when hes broke Im there.
So please, any tips advice, ideas. I come home from work grouchy, and want to be the best GF, and make up for the stupid things that come out my mouth because I overthink sometimes.
<3 thanks in advance. 10 pts
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BOOKS & AUTHORS: For those of you who have seen the movie (500) days of Summer?
I would like to write a book like that (the romance will be completely different) and I think it would be cool to just do random days in the couples lives. Sometimes they are together…other times they are not.
You will only understand this question if you watched the movie! So just like the movie except writing it.
So the chapters will be something like this:
Chapter 1: Day 643-The Breakup
Chapter 2: Day 45-Her Spell
Chapter 3: Day 16-Weddings && Boys
Chapter 4: Day 17-Why can’t I get my priorities straight?
Chapter 5: Day 407-Her Lips
So as you can see the relationship won’t be in order. And since I want to follow their relationship throughout their lives whether they become friends or lovers, or married to different people. So I think to have the full effect I will make a series. Because I notice lots of romance novels…the love is rushed. But I don’t want it to be drawn out
So my question is should I write a book like 500 days of summer movie or would that confuse the reader?
If you think I should put it in order…would it be okay if I just did random days and at then when I’m finished I can put them altogether…
btw im a teenager and i think I want this as a life long project that I can always work on. =) Maybe publish it when I’m old.
This ideal is completely mine I’m just using this as an example to make this easier for you to understand what I’m saying. I thought the movie was weird and awkward.
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I have a friend I used to be close to and we were in eachother’s weddings. I have moved twice in the last 5 years and our friendship has changed, we are not close like we were. My feelings have been hurt the last few years because I don’t feel support from her and feel like she is aggravated with me at times. This year we got pregnant at about the same time, me with my second and she with her first and I thought it would give us common ground to talk about again. I have called her a few times and ask her how everything is going with her pregnancy. She has not called me in 7 months. I used to get emails from her and now I don’t even get those. In the end of her pregnancy she sent me an email about how she was arguing with her husband. I replied in a heartfelt manner, did not get another response from her. She has barely asked me how I am in my pregnancy. Now that she has had her baby now I am getting emails from her, all complaining about the stress of being a new mother. Normally I would love to be a sounding board for her but I am pissed off the way she has been out of contact for months. Now I am good enough to talk to or email rather because she is having a hard time? I am the only friend of hers that has kids. I think also as soon as things get easier for her she will most likely go back to dropping me. I am sorry she is stressed but I feel hurt by her. Is this rude behavior? Should I bother talking to her and emailing her the advice she is after?
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I am planning to be married in a simple ceremony at the courthouse in Joliet, but the online information on weddings there was a bit confusing. Do you just walk in on weekdays? How much does it cost to get married in the courthouse? Is it like a regular ceremony (rings and a fancy dress and all) or can you be as simple as you would like(major lack of $$ hence no big outside ceremony)? And you do not need witnesses, but how many people can come along if any? And as I saw another have rude posts, its not a prison thing, its just easier to get married in a courthouse when you are short on funds. Thank you all. ^_^
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I have been in the restaurant business since I was 14, moving my way from hostess, server, bartender, into management. At 26, I now run a Country Club. I love the line of work that I am in, but I am feeling overwhelmed for my first time. I always thought I new this industry inside and out, but the Country Club setting is completely different. I am now in charge of banquets, weddings, golf outings, as well as the dining room, housekeeping, and numerous other tasks. I feel as though I am not quite qualified for this position, but I am doing the absolute best that I can. The benefits are great, the pay is outstanding, and I can’t even begin to tell you how proud my parents are. I am so stressed out though. This job is all I think about. I try my hardest, but it never seems to get easier. The man who I replaced was very well liked amongst the employees and members (he was let go for drinking, drugging, and not doing his “behind the scenes” jobs that the employees and members never saw). I have faced a lot of critisism walking into this and it has been hard to establish the respect that I need to succeed. The mess that was left (untrained employees, no consistency amongst staff, etc.) by the man that I replaced has been a lot to clean up. How do I keep forging ahead upstream? My boss is very difficult to speak with. Anytime I approach him looking for advice, he simply states “It’s your world. Do what you seem is best”, but when things don’t go as he would have done them, he repremands me for it. I feel like I’ve been set up for failure. In this business though, there are no other job openings (trust me, I’ve looked!). I try to keep a positive attitude every day and find things to love about it, but every day it gets harder and harder. Any words of ecouragement or ideas on how to succeed in such an atmosphere? Thanks for reading….
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I have been in the restaurant business since I was 14, moving my way from hostess, server, bartender, into management. At 26, I now run a Country Club. I love the line of work that I am in, but I am feeling overwhelmed for my first time. I always thought I new this industry inside and out, but the Country Club setting is completely different. I am now in charge of banquets, weddings, golf outings, as well as the dining room, housekeeping, and numerous other tasks. I feel as though I am not quite qualified for this position, but I am doing the absolute best that I can. The benefits are great, the pay is outstanding, and I can’t even begin to tell you how proud my parents are. I am so stressed out though. This job is all I think about. I try my hardest, but it never seems to get easier. The man who I replaced was very well liked amongst the employees and members (he was let go for drinking, drugging, and not doing his “behind the scenes” jobs that the employees and members never saw). I have faced a lot of critisism walking into this and it has been hard to establish the respect that I need to succeed. The mess that was left (untrained employees, no consistency amongst staff, etc.) by the man that I replaced has been a lot to clean up. How do I keep forging ahead upstream? My boss is very difficult to speak with. Anytime I approach him looking for advice, he simply states “It’s your world. Do what you seem is best”, but when things don’t go as he would have done them, he repremands me for it. I feel like I’ve been set up for failure. In this business though, there are no other job openings (trust me, I’ve looked!). I try to keep a positive attitude every day and find things to love about it, but every day it gets harder and harder. Any words of ecouragement or ideas on how to succeed in such an atmosphere? Thanks for reading….
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I am looking for specific information/opinions about destination weddings! We are planning one for June 2009 and are trying to decide on a location. Please only reply if you’ve had a destination wedding or attended a destination wedding! We’ve been looking at Sandals resorts, Iberostar resorts, and Palace resorts in various locations. We’re not worried about how much the wedding part is, but more worried about how expensive it is to stay there with our guests in mind. I’d appreciate as much information as possible! If it’s easier to e-mail me I’d really appreciate it. jujeemd@yahoo.com Thank you!
Jadi – I would love more info! Especially if you have the website or pix?
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I’ve been to a number of weddings. on every single bride i see only that above mentioned wedding dress style. I prefer a full lace one, which fluff out only near the knees, like a mermaid-cut, preferrable with a long train. i think it is lovely but i have never seen tat being worn by any acquaintance of mine. is it because the fluff-at-the-waist type is much easier to get n more suitable for the mass? or it really looks nicer on photos?
I’m slim overall but i’m also curvy at my hips, medium height. i wld like to show off the contours of my bum.
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